Many men they spend complaining that their girlfriends are young girls are still very capricious, immature and do not know what they want in life. That is the move from party to party and do not fall in life. They want a woman with feet on the ground, a female follies, an experienced woman.
In these cases I say openly "friend of forty years is the new thirty, thirty-five is the new twenty-five." My point is have you ever thought about dating a mature woman, older than you, one of those women that are well preserved in their forties and even their forties?
Many will say to me forty years "Naxos? Are you crazy?
No, I went crazy ... I've always been crazy.
Older women in our society are at the time, at its best. Aesthetic medicine has made them a big favor, if they lived 100 years ago would be home, full of aches, wrinkles and worn bodies, but now with a quince skin, with high-impact body with an open mind without prejudices that comes with experience, with the desire to experience that gives the step life and knowing clearly where to go. In fact, 34% of women over 40 claim to have had a recent relationship with a younger man.
Whenever I find a misplaced twentysomething women think twice their age and I find some comfort in the midst of this generation with attention deficit and spirit. Many friends who initially laughed at me, now have been able to find them taste for older women, are in stable relationships, with women placed centered with feet on the ground. Obviously there are older women with problems, dislocated and psychologically unstable, but like everything, is a market that is worth exploring if you have not already done so, you can take the surprise of finding a really interesting woman.
I believe without a doubt, that the maximum level, Sam is tested by taking aim at older women with experience, it shows that you have achieved a solid inside game, you do not get carried away by prejudice, that women go for more challenging and you have a lot to offer.
If you have not found the reasons why you can raise your level of ambition for a woman older than you, here I give you some that I've found:
1. Older women are independent: They are more comfortable living alone, they know they do not need a relationship to be happy, they can be themselves and feel valued, which helps many older women have significant problems of self esteem. This means that you can meet women who are not so needy, so attached, so dependent, which can give yourself a margin of safety and autonomy to drive your life.
2. Older women are more assertive : You know what they want, and they know who they are. Have a good knowledge of themselves, have gone through several relationships, commitment, breakups, divorces and know what they want and what they do not support. For this reason is that clearly you know what to expect with them and are not subject to abrupt changes, contradictions, instability in women with less experience. Women are less shy about what they want and are less inclined to "play" or beating about the bush. As a younger woman makes you more cheating, tries to make the hard or get jealous, older women clearly know what they are worth and go straight to what they like.
3. They are good talkers : A good conversation are those things that are not very often, men sometimes we put ourselves under too much pressure to be the best talkers, as if proof that women make us, as if all women in the world were the best conversations simply for being women. Not really. There are women terrible conversationalists, not even David Letterman, Jay Leno, Conan O'Brian would remove them good songs. Well, with older women, perhaps because of his experience, one finds deep conversations with excellent storyteller, with no funny women take things too seriously and take the initiative to talk and talk for hours. His vision of life can be inspiring and profound.
4. have more economic stability: it sounds superficial, it is important to know that these women have a professional life is at its stable, with their possessions and are free to treat yourself, invest and save. Whenever this will be a good way to avoid you ambitious women and younger to be in the difficult of ascent may be more interested in use you as a springboard. Older women may be more generous, more retailers, including taking the initiative to invite an end week to a vacation on the beach.
5. Build friendships mature : Invest less time trying to please their friends, have gone through all the twists and turns to her friends, and at this point, the friendships I have are solid and constructive. No need to consult their friends any number of small decisions they make, they have more confidence in themselves.
6. allow more interesting appointments : They have more sophisticated tastes, so get them requires creativity, innovation and open-mindedness. Also they are also more simple and uncomplicated, you can go most peaceful places where you can operate more your intellect, your conversation, do not usually go to the most noisy of the city, to mourn or to get drunk shows.
7. are less aimed at drama : Here's an interesting point, if you can find a suitable woman, you'll have a greater capacity for coping with pain. While many younger women are with their first experiences of broken hearts, betrayals, can be a little hysterical. The older and have gone through it and take things more gently, more mature emotionally and flow more rather than clogged with rubbish.
8. have more sexual experience : They are more uninhibited, more confident, be accepted as they are, do not make great drama because they have a body with perfect measurements, enjoy it more because they are not outstanding otherwise than pleasure .
9. They have more experience relationships: They have more realistic expectations, know how to deal with silly little things that the younger they are challenging. They are excellent for long-term relationships, and also for the occasional, just know what to expect in each and are clear about what they want and what they can offer.
10. know appreciate what they have : You know what is truly important in life, are more aware of time together with your partner, take things more seriously and more likely that you will take more seriously . Emotions have more clarity, perhaps because they have a better understanding of themselves, perhaps because they have dealt with many ups and downs.
another reason ....
11. S on a challenge: The theory of motivation talk that we feel really motivated when faced with something called "optimal challenge." Women greater challenge because they are the fantasy of many men, because to go from the hand of a woman must have a very good game, and because seeing the hand of a woman like you very much 'value added.
women Obviously there are many, many varieties and styles and far from wanting to say we can not generalize that all women over age 30 are stable or emotionally balanced. We also find women in need, who want children at all costs to have children who want to find a husband, problems, etc.
However if you focus you can meet wonderful surprises that with age women become more attractive interesting, wise and daring than their younger counterparts. In the next letter will review some items that should be considered for dating older women.
To start the hunt!
Until next time!
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