1. take longer than a few seconds after seeing a woman approaching her : An immediate approach produces less nervousness, makes you look less rare, and shows that you are a person with confidence instead of the typical loser who does not can approach women. Miss fewer opportunities.
2. Talking very fast : It makes you look nervous and difficult follow you in what you're talking about. Consider that what you say is interesting and not give in to the nervousness of thinking that if talks fast lose attention.
3. Talking too slow : Take 100 men at random and ask them to find women in a club. 99 of them will be too quiet. She'll never want to ask them to repeat what you say in your first five minutes of interaction. This conversation stalls and stalls the momentum.
4. Skip to friends: Even if your direct approach will be necessary to meet their friends. If the direct approach is to not put too much attention to women, Get close to the whole group. I would add, expand the point of Savoy, elude the group that if you isolate it, will not work on your part, do not integrate. You can not isolate the woman from her group initially, will have to be "reliable" and approved by the group to get in, you can do this and then getting this group of women. They always emphasized his group in front of a stranger.
5. Too energy : Your energy level should be slightly higher than hers. Not less, but not too high, look like a maniac, a madman or someone with some kind of medication.
6. Avoiding mixed groups: It is more effective to attract women attractive when they are in the company of both men and women only when they are with their friends. I add here that when a large group of women comes not do to win, and the best way to approach a group of women is not individually, for isolating and despreciándote end not to leave her group of friends alone . It's almost a deal between friends. The best way is for you to go to be in groups, often coming close to dance, open dances, no partner, and almost without a word, only when there has been talk after the dance connection. I found that the liquor is also a good way to break the ice, if someone in your group have a bottle of liquor and a few drinks can share with the group of women (with all) and start a chat as a group.
7. "Milking" the input sentence : With whatever you start the approach, it is necessary to have more things in mind to continue the conversation, not just running and running the opening sentence.
8. not have a powerful body language : This will be 90% of what she'll notice. In the approach make sure you have slow, controlled movements. Move like you're underwater. I would add that it is just that the goal of the series of the language of seduction.
9. No fun : Emotions are contagious. If you project nervousness, she can not feel relaxed either. You need to get in the best emotional state before leaving to be with people with whom it is possible to be comfortable and fun, go places where you can have fun.
10. take it too seriously: In 10 billion years when the Sun has exploded and there is no life on Earth, nobody will care what you say to a woman in a bar. Important should not be much to think about a woman you just met.
The initial approach should be a very practical. For those who have seen the videos of the language of seduction know that the important thing is to speak, beyond the issue is to start a conversation. And the approach is based on a "common object of interest," ie, what you going to say will not break the state in which the group or she is like bamboo but you can adapt for the context that enter.
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